God is in control even of our children

I had a really nice day yesterday. I was full of life and joy for most of the day it seemed. I only took half my lunch so I could get off at 4:30. Wes had Football pictures at 5 and I also had to pick up Lane. My Lane, woo, that child is a complete had full. I say he has 4th child syndrome. Momma is too tired to deal with the 4th one. Or he has got to be Bi-Polar. After I picked him up yesterday the Usual happened with him. The ride home from the sitter is so awful. He threatened to take off his seat belt as usual, but he didn't stop at that this time. He actually opened his door as I was driving down the road. What on earth was he thinking? I freaked out. Threw the car into park. Got out in the middle of the road (in front of houses) and whipped his butt. Then I activated the Child Safety Lock on his door.
I could not believe that he did that. The child that has tried every thing else I shouldn't put anything passed him.
He is going to the dr. for croupy cough tomorrow So I think it is time to talk with him about the issues we have been dealing with. If nothing else give me some ways of handling the matters.
I have raised 3 others through the toddler stage and none of them or combining them even compares to the things he throws our way.
Just last week I don't know who was crying worse Me or him leaving WalMart. It was the most horrible experience I have ever had with him in public. I know that the Lord is in control of all things, including my children. Praying for some answers here, Lord.